Can a Boudoir Session Really Boost Your Self-Esteem?
January 10, 2012I know a lot of women out there hear the term “boudoir session” and they begin to sweat. I’ve heard women say, “I don’t even like to look at myself in the mirror. Why would I want to see photos of myself half-naked?” Or others have said, “I could NEVER do that!” Why not?
First of all, you aren’t getting any younger. Seriously! You should not wait until you’ve lost those last 5-10 pounds you keep trying to lose either. Hopefully it will happen but why put things off in the meantime? One of my New Year’s resolutions is to start living more in the moment, not waiting for that next big “thing” to happen. Celebrate who you are in this stage of your life. You’ll be so thankful you did! You are beautiful now and a photo session will only reinforce that.
Secondly, you will leave your boudoir session feeling like a star! We’ve actually had clients use that term. Lots of women show up, not sure what to expect. You will be the center of attention but in a good way. We try to give everyone an idea of how the session will work, but it’s hard to know how you’ll feel until you’ve done it. Most women have more fun than they would have imagined.
During your session, I like to think that we’re both pretty fun and easy to get along with. We try to share our personal experiences and help you feel comfortable. We’ll give you ideas of what we’re looking for in the pictures (no modeling experience required.)
Lastly, you will look awesome in your pictures! We are artists and try to consider what is most flattering for you. There are tricks we use to hide your “trouble spots.” We like to ask women what areas they want to focus on and what areas they want de-emphasize. We usually have a pretty good idea of what women want to see and what they would not love about themselves. We are women and know if something is not flattering, we wouldn’t like it either. While editing photos, we ask ourselves, “Would I like that picture if it was me?” If not, we delete it, and it is never seen again. Of course, Photoshop does wonders too! We subtly smooth skin and fix any minor problems for your edited gallery. You will love them!
So, yes! A boudoir session really will boost your self-esteem. Trust us! Anyone can do it! We’ve had women receive their galleries and can’t believe that it’s them. It will leave you feeling better about yourself and you may even start to look at yourself in a new and healthier way.
So what should you expect?
The session will last 1-1.5 hours on average. You will provide the location for the shoot. We have women use their own homes, a friend or family member’s home, a downtown loft, or a hotel. You will want to get ready before your session (make-up and hair.) Bring 2-4 of your favorite “outfits.” A few accessories are good to have too. Maybe some heels, pearls, jewelry, a shirt of your husbands or a favorite hat or tie. Simple is sometimes best! Once we have scouted out the location and decided where to start, you can change into your first outfit and open a bottle of wine if you wish! Then the fun begins. We’ll start shooting away as the ideas start to flow and the nerves start to calm. We always seem to get carried away and have to remind ourselves that there are other outfits. We will play with lighting and continue shooting until we have enough shots that we will both be satisfied with.
You did it! Now what?
It typically takes about 2 weeks to get your proofing gallery of edited photos. This will be a password protected online gallery for you to view. You will then decide what you want to do with your photos. With boudoir sessions, many women choose to purchase a small custom-designed album. These albums are available in several sizes: 5×5, 5×7, 8×8, 8.5×11, 10×10, with over 30 cover options. Albums start at $150. We have other women order prints or the full-resolution DVD to make their own album or scrapbook. Want to be a little bit bolder? Order a canvas or a wall collection of prints!
A few words from past clients:
”I have to be honest and tell you that I got a little teary eyed!! Looking at those pictures made me feel so pretty. Just a wonderful feeling, THANK YOU!! They are beautiful, just an awesome job.”
[These are pictures] “that I want to show even random strangers.”
“Thank you both, SO much, for an amazing experience! The whole reason I drove to Knoxville just for this, you guys provided, plus more than I could have imagined!!! I will definitely let others know & keep you in mind for anything in the future! I am more than excited to see the photos!”
Expressive Moments Photography/ Knoxville Boudoir Photography
(865)414-6330
info@yourexpressivemoments.com


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