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Wedding Day Timeline…..grrr how long can I put this off?
It’s getting down to the wire. Time to plan the details of the DAY of your wedding. This part can be very stressful for brides and families. You want everything to go perfectly. Unfortunately, things don’t always go exactly as you planned….but you can definitely still have a wonderful wedding day experience. Here is a set of ideas that we like our brides to think about when they start planning out the timeline of the day. What time do the bridesmaids need to be ready by? Remember, there is only one bride, but usually several bridesmaids. Think about girls getting ready on a normal day…and then times that by 5. A few times, we have had circumstances where we have been unable to take the photos with the bridesmaids before the wedding because they weren’t ready in time. Not a big deal in the long run (we definitely got the pictures), but just something to think about.
When the groomsmen are ready for pictures, will their boutonnieres be ready, and will there be someone who knows how to put them on? For some reason this is something that is frequently forgotten about. The groomsmen are dressed to the nines, but when the photographer is ready to start pictures, someone says, “Oh yeah, we need our boutonnieres!” And then, the second part of that is finding someone who knows how to put them on correctly.
What photos do you want to get finished with before the wedding ceremony? A lot of brides say that they would like to get some family pictures out of the way before the ceremony. Make sure you have told your family where to be and what time, and to be dressed and ready! Most family pictures are done after the ceremony, so the bride and groom can be in the photos together. Another thing to think about is what members of the extended family do you want in the photos? You may not want every single family member in the photos, so make sure your photographer knows ahead of time exactly who should be in the photos. We like to recommend brides to tell family members to meet at the altar right after the wedding, so you can start pictures quickly. Sometimes the most time-consuming part is simply rounding everyone up. You’ll want to get these over with so you can get to the reception and start the fun!

Another idea we like to recommend is doing the photos of the bride and groom together BEFORE the wedding ceremony. Yes, we know this breaks old traditions…..but it can help your timing flow better, and could possibly lead to better pictures of the two of you. By the time all of the wedding party and family pictures are done after the ceremony, brides and grooms are excited and ready to go have fun at their reception, and sometimes they tend to be a little more “hurried.” If you choose to do your photos before the ceremony, we always do a “first look,” where we will have the groom turn around and we will capture the faces and all of the emotions of that first look. Sometimes I think it can be even more intimate than the traditional ceremony first look because we always step away and let the bride and groom have a few minutes alone! Aww, so sweet!

A rough guideline of time that we like to allow for pictures:
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Bride alone = 20 - 25 minutes
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Bride with bridesmaids = 30 – 45 minutes
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Groom and Groomsmen = 30 – 45 minutes
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Entire wedding party = 15 – 20 minutes
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Bride and Groom = 45 -60 minutes
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Family = can depend on the size of the families, but usually around 30 – 45 minutes
Now, get to work on that planning….and don’t forget that it’s YOUR wedding day. Relax, and have fun, because it will be over before you know it!!!
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